BLACK FATHERS

I just finished reading a book by a 15 year old called 'if I could write every wrong' his name is TAYLOR-VAUGHN THAXTON  and in this book he talks about black fathers being iresponsible and being absent including his own. then he turns around and tells us that he is the product of an affair between his mother and his married  father!  WHAT!  your father was married? so that means your mother had an affair and a child with a man who she knew could not be a full-time father, she knew he had other children that he was obligated to.  so now who's irresponsibile?  HUH?   I blame the woman because she consented, I believe the woman has to be the responsible party here because she's the only one who can get pregnant she's the one who needs to think before she walks into the bedroom. the book that i'm reading now ' birds of a feather secret'z untold' by CYNTHIA STEWART  where her grandmother had 7 children and 5 of those children had different fathers   WHAT! she also ( and i've never heard of this before) had fratenal twins who had different fathers  HUH ?   thats right this is not a misprint, twins with different fathers,  unbelievable! you think promiscuity is a problem in the black community? so black fathers are not the only ones who's out of control and irresponsibile, it takes two to tangle.   IT is the woman who decides to go to bed with a married man, it is the woman who decides to go to bed with a man who's not working, it is the woman who decides to go to bed with a rascal who sells dope, smokes blunts and wears his pants on the ground.  and this same woman will go on the OPRAH WINFREY show (where she want be ask any why questions) and talk about how bad black fathers are.   SHE will go to bed with a thug and expect to have a baby by BILL COSBY, it doesn't work that way sweetie.